Monday, 25 June 2012

To blog.... Or not?

I love reading blogs.  I have a whole folder of bookmarked blogs.  Actually make that two folders of bookmarks.  I spend hours every week getting a little snap shot of other peoples lives.  Occasionally I may actually know the person in real life, but that is a very rare case.

I always wondered if I could blog too?  Would anyone be interested in anything I have to say?  When I started my own business a few years ago I began a blog. I thought if I wrote about business-y related things I could maintain a connection which would help bring people to my shop.  I wrote 3 entries.  3! Plus the third was to tell people I was closing down.  Small businesses do not thrive in my village.

So I abandoned that blog.  I felt I had failed.  I didn't fail.  If anything the local community failed me a bit but I didn't want to become bitter and ruin that blog as I wanted my business name to continue (it does on a small scale).  Plus putting that on your business blog = bye bye any local customers who may still want to support you!!

So I left it. I read people blogs, I social networked and I got on with living life.  But now I'm trying again. Why I hear you ask? (Well I would if I had anyone actually reading this yet)  Well my life has changed dramatically since the last blog.  I am a very proud mama to an 8 month old boy, I'm about to be married (in 6 sleeps!!) to a wonderful man (don't tell him I called him that his ego would explode) and we're about to move house! I like to do everything all at once it would seem. :-)

I wanted to be able to blog about lots of things, not just business-y stuff but personal things I'm interested in. The list can be exhaustive but I hope to include crafting, mummy related stuff, fixing up our new home, tv, family, my health (and hopefully vent and learn a little on that but not right now). I want to share my life.  I want this blog to help me focus mainly on the happy.  I can struggle to do that and so I want something to focus my attention.  I wouldn't want to read a blog centred on doom and gloom so mine won't be.  Hopefully that'll help me to do the same in real life.

So I hope to post often and Id like you to come along for the ride.  Come and join me in my journey to focus on the happy.  He is.  :-)